Sat 26 Jul 2008
be tee dubs
Posted by thejinius under dating, eating and drinking, life in new york
1. So last night I am out with Michael and his friends at Spitzers (be tee dubs I am OBSESSED with their BLT&E sandwich. I want to carry its picture in my wallet and call it every night) and I get a text. It is from the bearded guy. He has sent me about three texts in the past week and I have not responded. I feel like at this point it is just better to ignore than respond. I mean, how do you break up with someone when you were never dating in the first place?
His text says: Hey are you mad at me you don’t answer my text
I am with a bunch of dudes and they all think that I should just politely tell him I’m not interested because it’s the nice thing to do and it will impede him from texting again. I don’t know about you, people with feelings, but if someone sent me a text expressing they were not interested in me I think I would cry and then eat the entire contents of my fridge.
So I text my girlfriends and ask what they would do to show how differently girls and guys respond.
Ursy says: Tell him you are supermad at him or tell him you moved.
(I like this one)
Vidya says: No u should not respond. unless you want that kind of attention which I assume u don’t.
(For the record, I do not appreciate slightly creepy verbiage via text. Although I would have nothing to blog about if i didn’t receive them.)
Sarah says: If you must, say: I am not angry or upset, this is just not going to work.
(Sarah sounds like a dude)
2. Mean Girls was on the other day and it’s just one of those movies that gets funnier with each viewing. My new favorite line is: I don’t hate you because you’re fat. You’re fat because I hate you.
I am soooo gonna say that to my friends.
3. I texted the bartender last night and he never wrote me back. I am tempted to text: Are you mad at me? You don’t answer my text.
4. See, guys do this shit to girls all the time. And as long as women refer to men to make their moral decisions, the world will continue to be populated by assholes and liars.
5.So that was the first time I ever texted the bartender to hangout. And I think it will also be my last. Whatevs, at least my texts make sense. The bartender’s texts are like the Da Vinci Code and I need Tom Hanks to explicate them.
6.I can see the search words people use on this blog and I guess guys I formerly dated are reading it because they are typing their name in the search box. Are you really that vain to think that I would blog about you and use your real name? Because everyone knows I use really creative nicknames. Like the bearded guy!
7. I have stomach cellulite. I know, I know, HOT. So I googled how to get rid of it because I thought you could only get cellulite on your legs but apparently you can also get it on your stomach and arms. Ugh.
So these are some of the causes:
Cellulite on the stomach, especially in the lower portion, are thought to be linked to digestive disorders. Indeed, many women with stomach cellulite have irritable bowel, constipation, or liver disorders.
True. True. Double True.

July 26th, 2008 at 11:54 am
i tend to give advice like sarah/the guys. sorry.
July 27th, 2008 at 11:40 am
ok, so one time i was dating this guy and we had a horrible date and i thought I would never hear from him again. Wrong! he kept texting. at all hours of the day and night. ridiculous. i ignored him, and thought he would get the point. but no. i felt terrible, but finally i had to muster up the courage to text him and tell him that while i thought he was nice, I didn’t think things would work out between us.

and BINGO.
i never heard from him again.
So while we think boys should be smart enough to get the point, the truth is, they aren’t. We have to help them out ALOT. So my advice: text him you’re just not that into him, and i guarantee you that he will not bother you anymore….
July 27th, 2008 at 10:27 pm
i’m with soph on this one (who, coincidentally, looked RIDICULOUSLY hot onscreen. that viewing made my weekend).
July 28th, 2008 at 10:31 am
So I’ve heard that fat bellies in women is indicative of a history of female cancers/issues/diseases, check check double check in my family. It’s hereditary and it sucks butt. Sigh.